{"id":22401,"date":"2022-03-25T11:10:58","date_gmt":"2022-03-25T11:10:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/"},"modified":"2022-03-25T11:10:58","modified_gmt":"2022-03-25T11:10:58","slug":"how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/","title":{"rendered":"How do I get him to leave me alone?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_17 counter-hierarchy counter-decimal ez-toc-grey\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"display: none;\"><i class=\"ez-toc-glyphicon ez-toc-icon-toggle\"><\/i><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class=\"ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1\"><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_I_get_him_to_leave_me_alone\" title=\"How do I get him to leave me alone?\">How do I get him to leave me alone?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#Why_does_he_keep_me_around_if_he_doesnt_want_a_relationship\" title=\"Why does he keep me around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?\">Why does he keep me around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_leave_someone_who_doesnt_want_to_leave\" title=\"How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?\">How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_leave_someone_who_doesnt_want_you_alone\" title=\"How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want you alone?\">How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want you alone?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_deal_with_someone_who_wont_leave_you_alone\" title=\"How do you deal with someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?\">How do you deal with someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_make_him_leave\" title=\"How do you make him leave?\">How do you make him leave?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_make_someone_leave_you_alone\" title=\"How do you make someone leave you alone?\">How do you make someone leave you alone?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#Why_does_he_keep_you_around_if_he_doesnt_want_a_relationship\" title=\"Why does he keep you around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?\">Why does he keep you around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#When_a_guy_keeps_coming_back_to_you_what_does_it_mean\" title=\"When a guy keeps coming back to you what does it mean?\">When a guy keeps coming back to you what does it mean?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_is_just_keeping_you_around\" title=\"How do you tell if a guy is just keeping you around?\">How do you tell if a guy is just keeping you around?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#What_does_it_mean_when_he_loves_you_but_doesnt_want_a_relationship\" title=\"What does it mean when he loves you but doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?\">What does it mean when he loves you but doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_break_up_with_someone_who_doesnt_want_to_leave\" title=\"How do you break up with someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?\">How do you break up with someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_end_a_relationship_with_someone_who_wont_let_go\" title=\"How do you end a relationship with someone who won&#8217;t let go?\">How do you end a relationship with someone who won&#8217;t let go?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_leave_someone_who_won_t_leave\" title=\"How do you leave someone who won t leave?\">How do you leave someone who won t leave?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#What_do_you_do_when_your_partner_wont_break_up\" title=\"What do you do when your partner won&#8217;t break up?\">What do you do when your partner won&#8217;t break up?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_get_rid_of_someone_who_wont_leave_you_alone\" title=\"How do you get rid of someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?\">How do you get rid of someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_I_leave_someones_life\" title=\"How do I leave someone&#8217;s life?\">How do I leave someone&#8217;s life?<\/a><\/li><li class=\"ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2\"><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/how-do-i-get-him-to-leave-me-alone\/#How_do_you_tell_someone_to_leave_you_alone_without_hurting_their_feelings\" title=\"How do you tell someone to leave you alone without hurting their feelings?\">How do you tell someone to leave you alone without hurting their feelings?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_get_him_to_leave_me_alone\"><\/span>How do I get him to leave me alone?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Be honest. Let them know that you are not interested; say this assertively but without being mean. You do not need to list all of his faults and hurt his feelings. Just be clear that you don&#8217;t think a relationship (of whatever sort is at stake) will work and that you would prefer it if he leave you alone.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_does_he_keep_me_around_if_he_doesnt_want_a_relationship\"><\/span>Why does he keep me around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>He may be carrying some past traumas  that doesn&#8217;t mean that he doesn&#8217;t want to be with you; it just means that he may want to take things slowly. He may have subconsciously linked being in a relationship with getting hurt or being cheated on, and it may have nothing to do with how he feels about you!<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_leave_someone_who_doesnt_want_to_leave\"><\/span>How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>8 Step guide to Leaving a Toxic Relationship<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Start keeping a journal. Start writing.  <\/li>\n<li>Get some alone time.  <\/li>\n<li>Ignore relationship advice from others.  <\/li>\n<li>Reflect and decide.  <\/li>\n<li>Stop rationalizing abuse.  <\/li>\n<li>Find strength inside you.  <\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t force yourself.  <\/li>\n<li>Plan and create the future you want.<\/li>\n<p>4 Mar 2020<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_leave_someone_who_doesnt_want_you_alone\"><\/span>How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want you alone?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>5 Life Saving Ways of Letting Go of Someone Who Doesn&#8217;t Love You So You Can Be Happy<\/b><\/p>\n<li>#1  Ask yourself how determined you are to do this.  <\/li>\n<li>#2  Make three lists and refer to them often.  <\/li>\n<li>#3  Cut him off.  <\/li>\n<li>#4  Believe that you will find another love.  <\/li>\n<li>#5  Get back out there!<\/li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_deal_with_someone_who_wont_leave_you_alone\"><\/span>How do you deal with someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Steps to take when someone won&#8217;t leave you alone online<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Ask them to stop.  <\/li>\n<li>Keep a record of incidents.  <\/li>\n<li>Unfriend or block them.  <\/li>\n<li>Report them to the platform.  <\/li>\n<li>Let someone else know.  <\/li>\n<li>Report them to the Gardaxed  <\/li>\n<li>Think about your safety.  <\/li>\n<li>Text Messages.<\/li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_make_him_leave\"><\/span>How do you make him leave?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>How to get him to leave<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Move out. Powell says if you can leave the home you share, do so and don&#8217;t return.  <\/li>\n<li>Help him out. If he is at your place, Powell suggests you help him put his belongings together and don&#8217;t forget to take back your keys.<\/li>\n<li>Ignore conversations at all costs.  <\/li>\n<li>Write it if you can&#8217;t speak it.  <\/li>\n<li>Part in peace.<\/li>\n<p>3 May 2015<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_make_someone_leave_you_alone\"><\/span>How do you make someone leave you alone?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>8 Step guide to Leaving a Toxic Relationship<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Start keeping a journal. Start writing.  <\/li>\n<li>Get some alone time.  <\/li>\n<li>Ignore relationship advice from others.  <\/li>\n<li>Reflect and decide.  <\/li>\n<li>Stop rationalizing abuse.  <\/li>\n<li>Find strength inside you.  <\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t force yourself.  <\/li>\n<li>Plan and create the future you want.<\/li>\n<p>4 Mar 2020<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_does_he_keep_you_around_if_he_doesnt_want_a_relationship\"><\/span>Why does he keep you around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A guy who says he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship but keeps you around anyway is a guy who is <b>most likely insecure. A guy who is insecure has difficulty making clear decisions. He says he doesn&#8217;t want to be in a relationship, but he then wavers, wondering if he&#8217;s made the right choice.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"When_a_guy_keeps_coming_back_to_you_what_does_it_mean\"><\/span>When a guy keeps coming back to you what does it mean?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>He isn&#8217;t one to rush things, so dating him is like one long courtship, complete with shy hand holding, kissing, and those getting to know you dates. When he keeps coming back to you, it&#8217;s very likely that <b>he still remembers the very first time you went out together, and he probably still reminisces about it<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_tell_if_a_guy_is_just_keeping_you_around\"><\/span>How do you tell if a guy is just keeping you around?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>He acts like a different person sometimes, especially when other people are around. He doesn&#8217;t show you off on his social media accounts. He hasn&#8217;t taken the time to introduce you to his close friends or family. He doesn&#8217;t really plan things with you, and just expects you to be ready whenever.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_does_it_mean_when_he_loves_you_but_doesnt_want_a_relationship\"><\/span>What does it mean when he loves you but doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you know your man loves you and if he&#8217;s told you as much, then he might be pulling away from a relationship because <b>he&#8217;s simply scared of feeling this way. It could be the first time he&#8217;s ever been in love with someone. For guys, this can be a difficult emotion to process. For us women, emotions are easy.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_break_up_with_someone_who_doesnt_want_to_leave\"><\/span>How do you break up with someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Breaking up with someone who refuses to break up<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Stay calm and firm. Once you&#8217;re sure that breaking up with someone is the healthy thing to do, remain firm about your decision.  <\/li>\n<li>Get support from a trusted friend or family member.  <\/li>\n<li>Get support from an adult\/authority figure\/Support group.  <\/li>\n<li>Cut ties.<\/li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_end_a_relationship_with_someone_who_wont_let_go\"><\/span>How do you end a relationship with someone who won&#8217;t let go?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>How to Break It Off with an Ex Who Won&#8217;t Let Go<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Directly state that you want him out of your life.  <\/li>\n<li>Do not respond to any of his communication.  <\/li>\n<li>Unfriend, unfollow, and consider doing the same with his friends.  <\/li>\n<li>Have his emails sent directly to &#8216;trash.  <\/li>\n<li>Block his number.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t check on him.<\/li>\n<p>2 Jun 2015<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_leave_someone_who_won_t_leave\"><\/span>How do you leave someone who won t leave?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you&#8217;re happy with living with them, but not dating them; <b>have a frank and honest conversation with them. You might be able to work it out. If you are the owner of the house and the person won&#8217;t leave when asked. You may have to put it in writing ,you want them out by a certain date.<\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_do_you_do_when_your_partner_wont_break_up\"><\/span>What do you do when your partner won&#8217;t break up?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>If your partner disagrees with your decision, you may need to:<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Be clear. Explain why you want to end the relationship. If your decision is final, stress this.<\/li>\n<li>Give your partner time. They may not be as ready as you to move forward.  <\/li>\n<li>Ease things forward. Taking small practical steps can help to start move things on.<\/li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_get_rid_of_someone_who_wont_leave_you_alone\"><\/span>How do you get rid of someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>Steps to take when someone won&#8217;t leave you alone online<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Ask them to stop.  <\/li>\n<li>Keep a record of incidents.  <\/li>\n<li>Unfriend or block them.  <\/li>\n<li>Report them to the platform.  <\/li>\n<li>Let someone else know.  <\/li>\n<li>Report them to the Gardaxed  <\/li>\n<li>Think about your safety.  <\/li>\n<li>Text Messages.<\/li>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_leave_someones_life\"><\/span>How do I leave someone&#8217;s life?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>8 Step guide to Leaving a Toxic Relationship<\/b><\/p>\n<li>Start keeping a journal. Start writing.  <\/li>\n<li>Get some alone time.  <\/li>\n<li>Ignore relationship advice from others.  <\/li>\n<li>Reflect and decide.  <\/li>\n<li>Stop rationalizing abuse.  <\/li>\n<li>Find strength inside you.  <\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t force yourself.  <\/li>\n<li>Plan and create the future you want.<\/li>\n<p>4 Mar 2020<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_tell_someone_to_leave_you_alone_without_hurting_their_feelings\"><\/span>How do you tell someone to leave you alone without hurting their feelings?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><b>How to Leave Someone for Good<\/b><\/p>\n<li>1 Tell your partner you need to talk.<\/li>\n<li>2 Be ready to answer the question, Why?<\/li>\n<li>3 Use I statements so they don&#8217;t feel attacked.<\/li>\n<li>4 Keep your message short and direct.<\/li>\n<li>5 Share the news with friends and family.<\/li>\n<li>6 Be honest but sensitive if you have children.<\/li>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Table of Contents How do I get him to leave me alone?Why does he keep me around if he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship?How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want to leave?How do you leave someone who doesn&#8217;t want you alone?How do you deal with someone who won&#8217;t leave you alone?How do you make him&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"spay_email":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22401"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22401"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22401\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/animalshelterz.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}